Specializations
Substance Use and Addictions
I use a harm reduction approach when a person is actively drinking or using drugs – my focus is on supporting you through information, practical strategies with the aim of increasing physical and emotional wellbeing, and to support better management of your overall life and functioning. Harm reduction focused psychotherapy is defined by your goals, values and priorities while also paying attention to the unique intersections where substance use connects to other areas of your life, history, relationships, complex cultural/systemic factors and any experiences of trauma.
My approach understands the use of any substances as a unique and often long standing relationship between you and the substance/s. I often think of this relationship similar to one with a friend, someone who is familiar, and who we take comfort in but over time may have started taking so much of our energy and focus that the relationship now feels off balance. There may be a dependence on them that may feel like they have consumed us and taken over our life and all our priorities. Saying goodbye to this friend or altering our relationship with them can be challenging but it is absolutely possible.
For people who are interested in reducing or abstaining from alcohol or drugs, I am able to support you and help you move through various stages of change, using a compassionate approach that supports you in developing self-understanding and carving out new coping strategies which foster growth and resilience.
Family Dynamics and Relationship Issues
As a relational psychotherapist one of my primary areas of expertise is understanding the way our relationships form and transform us. Starting from the day we are born we rely on our primary caregivers to survive and through our interactions with them we come to know and understand what we can expect from life and the people around us such as the meaning of and accessibility of things like safety, security, love, dependence, nourishment and connection. When these needs are not adequately met it can create a wide range of challenges both within our relationships and also within ourselves.
While we can be hurt in relationship we can also heal in relationship and this a lens that I bring with me to this work. Whether we are working together one-on-one or in couples work (ethical non-monogamy, polyamorous, monogamous) we will be getting under the surface of your experience to explore what these relationships and cyclical dynamics are stirring up for you which may relate to past histories, traumas or life challenges alongside carving out space to really understand and know your hopes, values, dreams, needs and desires in relationship and what may be getting in the way of this.